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If you’re emotionally invested, or think you’re in a relationship, it’s code red.Nasty and spiteful – Mean spirited people don’t stop being so in a relationship and may attack your self esteem by latching on to what they think are flaws in you.These are the key things that you need to be very aware of and set as your limits.Anything else is down to your own boundaries so it’s important to recognise what has made you uncomfortable in the past and why, what your values are, and ensure that actions match words and that what you’re doing is congruent with who you profess to be.Some things are a flat out code red and I have marked it with FOCR.
Following my original post ‘knowing when to bail – red flags’, I’ve now delved a little further because so many people try to be the exception to the rule and have little or no boundaries.
Anybody trying to pursue you while with someone else is shady.
Decent people get their house in order – they don’t stock up on an emotional airbag.
Many of us also see the perfect opportunity to be an emotional airbag or to fix, heal, help – we end up on a pedestal.
Even when confronted with code amber behaviour, we don’t process the information, pause, access what it means to us and the relationship that we have in mind or our vision of the other person.